आज जब बैठे थे तेरी यादों को मिटाने की ज़दोजेहेद में , एक हाथ में जाम और दूसरे में ज़हर का प्याला लिए, कम्बख्त इस पेशोपेश में पड़ गया हमारा ये घायल मनं, जब ये नींद कभी हमारी न हुई तो ये मौत क्यों न बेवफाई करेगी...
इलज़ाम तो बहुत लगाया तुमने हमपे, कभी खुदगर्ज़ी का तो कभी बेरुख़ी का, इक बार तो अपनेपन से हक जताया होता हमपे, साड़ी दुनिया को छोर चले आते हम जो तुमने हमें पराया न किया होता…
दिल हमारा था ये ज़ख़्मी ,पर आपसे छुपाना पड़ा, आँखें हमारी नम थी पर मुसुकराना भी पड़ा, अजीब बेदर्द होते है ये एह्सास के रिश्ते, रूठना चाहते थे आपसे ,पर मनाना पड़ा….
ये पल बीत जाएगा, ये ज़ख्म भी भर जाएगा, बस हमारी दोस्ती का ये हसीं मंज़र रह जाएगा, ना हम रहेंगे, न हमारे ये जज़बात रहेंगे, याद करने को बस साथ बिताया हर एक लम्हा रह जाएगा…
हम फिर भी अपनी इस दोस्ती को यादों में बसायेंगे, लाख़ दूर सही पर बंद पलकों से भी आपको नज़र आयेंगे, बीता हुआ वक़्त तो फिर भी वापस नही आता, हम तो वो हमदम है,तुम जब याद करो तब चले आयेंगे...
इस सोच में थे डूबे की काश आप हमारे होते, ख्वाबों के समंदर में दिल गोते खा रहा था, कमबख्त इस बदकिस्मती की इन्तेहा तो देखो, ख़्वाब में भी आपका आँचल हाथों से फिसलता जा रहा था…
ये जानता है दिल की आप कभी हमारे नही हो सकते, फिर भी इस दिल को खुदा से आपका साथ मांगने की आदत हो गई है, दोस्तों के कई काफ़िले निकले और हमें अकेला छोड़ गए, क्या करें की अब तनहा जीने की आदत हो गई है…
आपने कहा मिटा दो अपनी यादों से मेरा हर ज़र्रा, किसी और से कर लो वफ़ा के वादे, इश्क में बस इतनी सी नादानी हो गई हमसे, आपके साथ गुज़ारा हर लम्हा बन गया तमाम उमर भर की यादें…
ऐसा नही की आपको भूलने की कोशिश नही की इस दिल ने, उन हसीन यादों को दफना न सके बताओ हम क्या करें, धीरे धीरे से रखा था हर कदम आपकी दुनिया में, के आप न आए हमारे ख्वाबों को सजाने बताओ हम क्या करें...
इक और लम्हा बीत गया आपके इंतज़ार में, अश्कों के मोती छलके मेरी आंखों से, इक पल गुज़रता है यूँ एक बरस के जैसे, अब तो लगता है इक ज़माना बीत गया आपके प्यार में...
इन खुली बाँहों में समा जाते आप मोम से पिघलकर, आंखों में अपनी वफ़ा का समंदर समेटे हुए, होंठ जो सिल जाते हमारे, फिर रूह कहाँ जुदा होती, तमाम उम्र गुजार देते बंदगी में, आपको अपना खुदा मानकर...
राह देखता हूँ अब मैं, आ जाओ आप कभी कहीं से, सूख गई है अब ये आँखें, होता नही दर्द का एहसास, खुदा की नाराज़गी का आलम तो देखो, न हो हमें खुशी का एहसास, तो आप जैसी रूह न डाली कहीं किसी में...
प्यार हो हमारा मिटटी के दो हिस्सों जैसा, इक मैं और इक तुम, दोनों मुजस्समों को तोड़ के फिर ऐसे जोड़ दो, तुम में कुछ मैं रह जाऊं, मुझ में कुछ तुम रह जाओ...
ख्वाहिश है चाँद को पाने की, मगर चांदनी है की हमसे ख़फा है, आरज़ू है किसी के इश्क़ में लूट जाने की, मग़र बिना पाए किसी को चाहना भी तो वफा है...
न चाहा हमने कभी ये इश्क का समन्दर, हमें तो बस सच्चे मोहब्बत के इक पल की आस है, वो पल जिसके सहारे ये ज़िन्दगी गुज़र जाए, चाहत की उस इक बूँद की प्यास है...
ऐसा नही की हमने कभी मोहब्बत नही की, हमने तो खुदा से ज्यादा उसकी बन्दगी की है, किसी को तहे दिल से चाहना कोई खता तो नही, ना पाने का गिला रखना इश्क की शर्मिंदगी है...
हम नही जानते ये तलाश कब खत्म होगी, किसी दिन हमारी ज़िन्दगी भी किसी को अज़ीज़ होगी, ना छोडेंगे हम कभी उम्मीद का ये दामन, साँसे थम भी जायें तो ये खुली पलकें इंतज़ार करेंगी...
Like any typical Bollywood flick, everybody loves an outsider who makes it big. You know, the quintessential rags-to-riches hero sans a celebrated last name, who gets the hits, the babes and rakes in the moolah. In recent times, Shah Rukh Khan has famously been this and done that. Like SRK, Kumar’s success story is equally rivetting.
To say the least nobody gave Rajiv Hari Om Bhatia aka AKKI BHAI any real chance of surviving in the industry. For a long time he was just this Punjabi boy from a modest family in Delhi who had worked as a waiter in Bangkok. They sniggered about his desi accent, his hairy chest and his over reliance on his one true love: martial arts. He was famously dubbed as a Cardboard Hero. But credit to the guy’s grit that he learned on the job. For every Deedar, there was a Khiladi and for every Mr Bond there was a Yeh Dillagi.
And now finally after 17 years in showbiz, Kumar has earned himself the tag of ‘Hit Machine’ by the trade folk. The reason simply being all his 4 movies last year, Namaste London, Bhool Bulaiya, Welcome and Hey baby were super hits.
But his supremacy does not lie in Hits and Flops, can not just be measured quantitatively.When you ask me who is your favourite actor, it would take me not more than a second to shout out Aamir Khan's name. So, its rather surprising at 1st place for a die hard aamir fan to praise akshay kumar so much. But there is something in common between both the actors which i think is an important criteria for me- Spontaniety!!!
When you see akki doing comedy you will feel that he is hardly making an effort, that his lines have not been written before, it feels as if he is really some kamina :)..You won't see him making strange faces like some Mr beans rather he lets the situation take over him rather than he taking over the situation.
Akshay, who used to wait tables to fund his karate lessons in Bangkok before lady luck led him to Bollywood, has come a long way. Known for performing daredevil stunts, Akshay's dedication is finally getting him the recognition he deserves. With so many impressive films for past few years, AKKI has proven time and again that he is the boss of the boxoffice.....no matter whom he is working with, he is sure to pull crowds into theatre across the globe....Its time that we give him his dues.....because for long he has been unsung....for long he has not been given due recognition...
He is the change and He is the relief from very melodramatic, emotion jaggering lavish films....He is the laughter and He is the force....No wonder only blinds cannot see him but others are joining and cheering him......accolades are only for him....
I was kind of lost somewhere for the past 10 months or so...Stretching myself for work day and night like an "infinitely Flexible"(this flexible word frustrates me like anything )rubber strip..Only someone very close to me, someone who is there for me all the time, who I can touch whenever my fingers want to; could help me in coming out of this deep slumber. Yes, she is my new girlfriend, hot and super cool at the same time, my HP Pavilion dv6767 TX notebook!!! Thanks to my dear sweetheart i can now keep posting my thoughts anytime i feel like. Hope she sticks with me for at least 5 years before I dump her for someone else!!
Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. -Martin Luther King, Jr.
Please don’t take me wrongly…I can explain this…It’s not the way it appears to be… Well I can easily verbalize with a probability of ‘1’ that each one of us have uttered or listened to these statements uncountable number of times. It’s tough to be on either side in these situations, whether you are the ‘sinner’ or the ‘forgiver’. The sinner will never be in peace because he or she has not been able to put their point across while the listener (sounds more appropriate), who is hurt will never want to listen to any explanation as he/she feels hurt. A catch-22 situation; isn’t it? This isn’t something very new; this situation is in existence since the inception of mankind itself. Yes this is what a misunderstanding is!!
Literally, it means-to fail to understand or interpret rightly the words or behavior of. If it simply means this much why it is that most of the times this misunderstandings lead to the termination of relationships, be it friendship or marriages. Why can’t these words or the behavior that have been misunderstood be replaced by some similar words or behavior?
We have seen it so many times that how a boy and a girl initially come closer coz of the similarities in their likings and behaviors. This fondness goes to the extent that they even start enjoying their dissimilarities. This honeymoon period continues till that fateful day when some forlorn misunderstanding creates a crack, and then widens it - they start and the conclusions are one of these two - "like poles never attract" or "we had so many dissimilarities and it couldn't have worked anyways - I wonder how it went on so far??”
You are always loved for the ‘good things’ that you do and an occasional ‘Odd deed’ of yours overshadows all the good that you ever did! You are loved for the same things some times and lambasted for the same things the other times coz you failed to live up to the expectations of the same bunch of people. "All men are sick,they all just want one thing from women." Have you been lucky enough to have listened to this? (Well, if you are thinking that this is what you also have felt one time or the other, then hold on! You are not unique.)
Well my interpretation of misunderstanding is miscommunication or rather the lack of it.
There is a definite difference between talking and communicating? Communicating has two parts: talking and listening. The root of the verb "communicate" means to share. How can we share thoughts and feelings unless the involved parties in the conversation listen with understanding as well as speak? How do we tell our friends that we love them? Not every time by words, but by LISTENING to what they have to say!!
You don’t always need to feel that it’s only coz of your fault or the person in front of you that this misunderstanding happened. This moment is a test of the strength of your relationship. Don’t start feeling that this misunderstanding arose because of the mistrust, instead think that erasing this misunderstanding shows the level of trust that you have. You may understand their point but still disagree with it. If your opinion is different, don't you want others to respect your right to disagree? Of course you do! How do you get others to respect your beliefs? By respecting theirs! Often disagreements arise because we focus on the words being used instead of focusing on the speaker. How can we keep aside the fact for even a moment that the person speaking these lines means so much to me? Why is it so difficult at that moment to remember that the same person has been with me at all the times? How special he/she has made me feel, may be just an hour ago? How much effort he/she puts to bring a smile on my face, how can the same individual say or do something deliberately to hurt me? Well all these questions seem so obvious in the hindsight but we all know that hindsight is the best sight!
Occasionally, despite our best efforts, conflicts will develop. If so, there's no need to despair. After all, conflicts are always opportunities for growth. Use conflicts to learn where you went wrong and make the necessary corrections. As long as we learn from our mistakes, we will continue to move forward. When we seek to understand first and seek to be understood second, we will avoid most of the problems. Also, when we understand one another, there will be no need for forgiveness.
Misunderstandings arise between people who have a certain level of understanding. How much difference will it make if we think a bit before we speak, even to the person who is closest to us? Closeness and comfort does give us the liberty to say anything but not in any manner. Well look at these two statements- “Don’t ever dare speak to me like that!!” and “Darling, it hurts when you speak that way.” One line of kindness can melt away most of the misunderstandings. As far as I am concerned I always am a bit extra careful while talking to my loved ones, I don’t think this means I am less comfortable with them. It means that I want them to be the last ones on earth who would get hurt by my words or actions.
True, if we always shared the same ideas, there would be no disagreements, but what a dull world it would then be. So, as long as we realize that two monologues do not make a dialogue, and communication does not mean others must agree with us, we should do all right!!
